Look we get it. HEROES has become the television equivalent of that really bad relationship. The one where you’re constantly giving a second, third or heck, even fourth chance to that special someone in the hopes of re-capturing the magic of those unforgettable first few months.

Which is why this TV Addict has enlisted a few genuine ‘heroes’ to lend a hand with tonight’s big decision. Do you give what executive producer Bryan Fuller promises will be “the best finale the show has ever had” one last chance? We are, and here’s why.

Not only did the allusive Cristine Rose (Angela Petrelli) offer up three tantalizing word (”Time will tell!”) when we asked her to tease tonight’s finale at last weekend’s HEROES FOR AUTISM event. She confirmed an actual heroes death, promising that, “one of the main characters that’s been with us from the very beginning is really dead and nobody believes that but it’s absolutely true.”

Next up, is the man who brought horn-rimmed glasses back, Jack Coleman (HRG) who teased that tonight’s finale, “unravels in a dramatic way that springs us into a very cool fourth season.”

And finally, comes the surprisingly candid Milo Ventimigliia who had this to say when asked by this TV Addict why fans should give the show one last shot. “I think it’s a bummer that they [the fans] left. I understand they can get frustrated with the show, we [the actors] get frustrated with the show at times. But we stick with it and we ask that they stick with it because there are a lot of episodes between number one and the series finale and I think that when you look back with all of them compiled together everyone will realize and understand that the growth of the show, the maturation of the show came from every single episode. Some are going to be better than others, but everyone of them is a building block.”

What’s the only thing more fulfilling then getting to spend an evening helping to make a difference in the lives of people coping with Autism? How about getting to do so with the cast of HEROES, Rainn Wilson, PRIVATE PRACTICE’s Amy Brenneman and one helluva entertaining Band From TV!

Yup, the first ever HEROES FOR AUTISM fundraiser was most definitely a night to remember. One that I’ll have no trouble doing so thanks to, ummm… the few hundred photos I snapped; My favorite of which you can check out after the jump.

The TV Addict with HEROES executive producer Bryan Fuller

Band From TV/HEROES star Adrian Pasdar

Band From TV/DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES star James Denton

HEROES FOR AUTISM host Rainn Wilson

Band From TV’s Bob Guiney

Hidden behind the drums, Band From TV’s mastermind Greg Grunberg

At the recent Television Critics Association Press Tour, HEROES star Milo Ventimiglia was kind enough to take a few minutes out of his busy schedule to preview the next chapter of HEROES, which premieres on Monday and is ominiously titiled, “Villains.”

There has been a lot of talk about big changes when HEROES returns on Monday. What can you spill?
Milo Ventimiglia: There’s not a lot I can actually talk about.

Great thanks!
[Laughs] The one thing I can say is that Peter is not quite himself.

Care to elaborate?
If the first season was about Peter finding himself and the second was about Peter losing himself. The third season has Peter not quite himself. Peter is always evolving, moving and bouncing around. Right now, Peter is one of the most powerful heroes, which means at some point, the guy has to fall. Which is going to be really fascinating to watch.

Hayden [Panettiere] has hinted that there may me something worse out their than Sylar this season?
There is. I think everyone will be confronting something worse than Sylar. And it’s definitely something that is going to strike a chord with Peter.

Will Sylar himself be threatened?
It’s a threat to everybody and everything. I’m not going to say it’s an apocalypse, but there’s going to be a power that comes along that will force everybody to band together.

In recent interviews, HEROES creator Tim Kring has alluded to the fact that the stakes are a lot higher this season.
All I know is that Tim sad this year that if you die, you’re dead. So it’s going to be interesting to see what happens. Where it all leads and what characters are going to survive.

What can you tell us about the Petrelli family this season?
The Peterelli family is an interesting lot, aren’t we? There is so much hope and infighting that it’s kind of confusing to say where we actually will land. But I think that there is such a dynamic between all of the characters, between Angela, Nathan and Peter and the extension of that family that you have got to wonder how the Father played into everything. I definitely don’t think there’s going to be a lack of intrigue coming out of the Petrelli family this season.

This new chapter of the HEROES saga is being called “Villains”. What does that mean to you?
To me it’s just a title, but to Peter, it signifies a lot of trouble.

We can’t wait…

HEROES returns this Monday September 22 starting at 9PM [With a recap episode running at 8PM]

Sylar as President Nathan Petrelli! Talk about evil genius — I did not see that coming. Perhaps I was too distracted by the coolness of future Peter (how bad-ass was that scar?), or the remarkable friendship between Hiro and Ando, but I honestly thought that power had simply taken hold of Nathan, driving him to do some really stupid things. After-all, he is a politician, and let’s face it — we all know that people in power do stupid things in order to hold onto it.

Chapter Twenty of HEROES was almost perfect and with a mere three episodes left, the show is truly firing on all cylinders leading up to what will no doubt be a fantastic finale. That said, we at theTVaddict.com thought we’d offer up a few more questions for fellow HEROES addicts to answer.

1. If Peter can heal himself, why couldn’t he heal the massive scar on his face?

2. Is anyone tired of the shameless plugs for primatechpaper.com (oh the irony of yet another shameless plug!)

3. If Sylar is such an evil genius, why doesn’t he kill the Haitian and take his power? You’d think the ability to ‘turn off’ an adversaries power would be something he’d want.

4. Where was Linderman in the future? And more importantly, did the future turn out how he planned? It didn’t seem that the world was united in grief. It seems as though the world was even more divided then ever.

5. If Peter has the ability to time travel (since he’s been in close proximity to Hiro), why didn’t he team up with future Hiro and help him stop ‘the exploding man’ — which it turns out, is himself.

6. When is Sylar going to die? Sure we’re all loving the Peter vs. Sylar rivalry now. But eventually the constant face-offs are bound to grow tedious. Who’s Molly Parker and how does a little girl have the power to defeat Sylar? (Could she be a Sylar’s younger sister whom we’ve yet to meet?)

7. Was anyone else a little put off by the whole 9/11 aspect of the episode? Yes I realize that HEROES is a TV show and complete fiction. But for some reason, I just found the whole dramatization of a New York tragedy a little off-putting.

The feeling is somewhat similar to the unpleasantness I felt while watching the original HEROES pilot. In the original cut of the show, there was an entire plotline that dealt with suspected arab terrorists. The plot was, in my opinion, rightly cut out of the pilot that premiered in September because it felt a little too real. HEREOS is supposed to be fun, a fantasy, an escape. No one wants to be reminded as to just how awful (at times) the real world can be.

8. With Isaac gone, who’s been paying rent on his New York loft for five years? Living in New York isn’t cheap.

This past Tuesday, also known as Halloween, the TV Addict had the chance to talk to HEROES stars Adrian Pasdar (Nathan Petrelli) and Milo Ventimiglia (Peter Petrelli). Not surprisingly, both actors who play ‘make-believe’ for a living didn’t dress up for Halloween. But they did have some very interesting things to say about being part of the fall’s newest hit show.

Did you ever imagine HEROES would become the hit it has?

Milo Ventimiglia: The pilot script was different then anything I’d read in a long time. It was a huge departure from the misfit younger characters I’ve been playing [GILMORE GIRLS, AMERICAN DREAM] which I was definitely excited about.

Adrian Pasdar: The moment I had an idea [that the show would become a hit] was at July’s San Diego Comic Con. The fire marshall came over to Jeff Leob (HEROES Executive Producer) and told us that we have too many people in the hall and we’d have to shut down. Jeff said, “You go tell them they can’t watch the show.” At that moment, I realized we’d have an initial shot at a large audience and it was up to us to deliver.

Milo Ventimiglia: The overall response has been positive. I’m starting to hear things from people on the street or my friends, asking about Nathan. It’s nice to know that hopefully we’re doing our jobs well enough that people are talking about the show.

Adrian Pasdar: It’s nice to be a part of the water-cooler conversation.

Is there any concern that the show is too complicated for the casual viewer?

AP: I think network television has underestimated the intelligence of viewers for many years. I think the average viewer is much more intelligent than executives give them credit for. They crave intensity and are willing to sit down and watch a quality show.

Why do you think audiences of all ages and demographics are getting into the show

MV: I think it’s just the subject matter and the state of the world. My best friend and his grandmother who is 88 watches the show. I don’t think there’s one storyline that plays to a younger audience and one to an older audience. There’s something for everybody.

AP: I think people want to watch a show like this. Especially in the world we live in, where Terrorism is a fact of live. Audiences want to see ordinary people take extraordinary steps to make the world a better place.

It’s a great time for Science Fiction on television.

AP: When times are dire around the world — every corner of the globe seems to be under some imminent or immediate threat. This kind of escapism grows wings faster in times of trouble. After WWII, heroes were created and the same thing is happening now. This kind of show speaks to peoples fantasy.

The series is also more rooted in reality, with no capes. I hate to say reality TV, but it’s tapping into that sense of reality television, drawing you in on a weekly basis. It’s more rooted in reality then any other super hero show that’s come on TV.

Can you comment on the excitement you’re feeling as a result of the shows success?

AP: Well to be honest, we’ve got our son out of diapers (Adrian Pasdar is married to Dixie Chick Natalie Maines) and that is really a big moment. The excitement around our house is never focused on success outside of it. We both realize that success comes and goes and is fleeting. Ultimately I think the union that we share with our family is a much more powerful influence. Having said that, sure we’re really excited. She’s on tour and the documentary is doing well. Success is not accompanied by a loud bang, it kind of creeps in the door and sits down quietly.

Does Natalie watch the show?

AP: She watches it in Australia on tour. She loves it and wants to know why she has to download it from iTunes and not get sent the DVDs.

How do you feel about the same network that your show is on [NBC] not wanting to air commercials for your wife’s documentary film SHUT UP AND SING?

AP: That’s a touchy issue, but I can’t say I condone the behaviour by NBC. I think it’s cowardly. Television is free for the people and the network should not take it upon themselves to be a sieve for what’s acceptable. It’s a documentary for heavens sake — It’s not a fictionalized account [the movie]. I think it’s a sad commentary and I’d be a liar if I didn’t say I was extremely disapointed.

Let’s talk character specifics. Milo, how quickly did you discover your power?

MV: Going into the pilot, I had no idea. I simply thought that there was a dynamic relationship between Nathan and Peter. it wasn’t until a couple of months later, at the May Upfronts [in New York], that Tim walked up to me and said I think we figured out Peter… then he delved into his explanation.

Does ‘Save the Cheerleader’ include hooking up with the cheerleader?

MV: She’s 17, so that’s a story that will never happen. But there is a definite connection that Claire develops with Peter, from Peter’s perspective, it’s more of a big brother thing with her. But Peter has a connection with every character because of his power.

We’ve seen you take on powers of other characters when you’re in a room. Are we going to see you in a room with two super heroes?

MV: The physical pressure that Peter feels in a room with two super heroes could be mentally overwhelming. We do get into it in future episodes. Potentially, Peter could be the most powerful super hero.

Two weeks ago, we watched as Nathan rocketed through the sky. In a political climate, how long until someone discovers your superpower?

AP: It’s TV, so they can keep it under wraps for as long as they need to. When it serves the story, they’ll dole it out in pieces. Of course there will probably be someone who finds out about Nathan’s secret and has to be dealt with.

Is you character good or bad?

AP: My take on the character is that of playing Richard III. All I need is a physical malady to get really Shakespearean. Is he good or bad? I don’t think there’s an absolute. I do think there’s a dark side that has to be dealt with though. On the show in general, people who you think are good will probably turn bad so it wouldn’t do me any good to speculate. I think there is a whole lot of both. Hopefully it’s just interesting to wtach. I’m as much a fan and along for the ride as the public is.

In comparison to actors on say LOST, you seem to know a little more about your characters. How much do you want to know?

MV: We approach it like everyday life. There are hopes and ideals of where you might be and where the character goes. The scripts can come out, you have a couple of conversations with the writers, but for me, I like to have a vague idea of what’s coming up and focus on the page.

AP: We’re six episodes ahead of what aired last night [Chapter Six]. We’ve all had conversations individually and they’re [the writers] very open to hearing our thoughts about what’s been written so far and possible directions. But they do have bigger and brighter plans of where we’re going. They have a pretty good idea through the rest of season one where it’s going and how it’s going to end up.

MV: One or two writers will often sneak to the set and say, “Dude, you’ve got some cool stuff coming up.” Unfortunately they won’t elaborate.

Is there any truth to the rumour that the major story arcs will be concluded halfway through the season?

AP: From all of our perspectives, there can’t be an end to the story. One door closes and another door will open. There may be periodic endings to subplots, but the overall arch to the story is never-ending.

Can you guys elaborate on Nathan and Peter’s relationship, and perhaps the challenges of playing it out on screen.

AP: I have a lot of respect for Milo as an actor and a human being. There’s an adversarial alpha male tone to the relationship. I don’t always treat Peter onscreen with the respect that one would hope for. So that’s somewhat of a challenge — to understand it’s real on screen but doesn’t reflect the respect that we share for eachother off screen. Of course that’s the nature of acting.

Can you sum up your take on Nathan’s perspective relationships with both Nikki and his wife?

AP: My wife understood coming into the relationship what it would take to be a politicians wife. There’s a sense of guilt that’s permeated. [It's] an accident that Nathan feels guilty for…. [in episode #9 or #10] we get information from this accident on a few fronts, not just this one that explains why she’s [Nathan's Wife] in a wheel chair.

In terms of Nikki, there’s a classic attraction between the two of them – based on the fact that he’s a politician and she’s a stripper. In terms of my character, it’s great that they put my character with the person who would be the biggest liability. In terms of the attraction, I could go on…. but she’s hot, and he’s powerful.

We’re starting to see more connections between characters.

MV: In the beginning, we asked Tim when we’d start connecting, as there are so many actors. Timm said we’d weave in and out of stories. Some characters will meet up right away, others will take longer depending on their circumstances.

Do you guys find yourself fans of the other stories?

MV: Absolutely

Tim Kring has made a point to say that the show is really about the relatinoships between characters, no the superpowers. Milo, can you comment on Peter’s relationship with Simone?

MV: It’s one of those relationships like many on the show that’s kind of the foundation of where we are all going. Peter has a big heart and is a caregiver and naturally falls in love with Simone who’s of course attached to someone else. It’s just one of those complicated things that add drama to the show. In future episodes, Simone will actually help him along in understanding he’s going through.

AP: The Petrelli family dynamic is an interesting one. Seeing that Nathan is in the game of politics, the White House is the ultimate destination. The combination of family dynamics and politics will no doubt be very interesting in future episodes.

Would the series work without the comic relief of Hiro and Ando?

MV: I think there has to be a balance to the dramatic element. Just as something heavy and forlorn is happening, it’s nice to go to a lighter place with Hiro or Ando.

AP: I would agree with Milo. With the density of the story-lines, you need an optimistic hero like Hiro to be a key element to the success and failure of the show. Masi Oka (Hiro) is fearless and wonderfully suited for the job.

With the popularity of the show, are you concerned with being typecast as a ‘Hero’ for the rest of your career?

AP: We’re not specific superheroes (ie. Superman). So if we do our jobs well, I don’t think there’s a danger of being typecast.

MV: At the foundation of the show, it’s a character drama.

What’s been the most surprising aspect of your HEROES experience thus far?

AP: It all seems to have been so well mapped out. There have been no accidents. Everything here has been very well thought out and a lot of work has gone into the crafting of it. For me it’s all gone off without a hitch, according to the plan. The goal was to do quality TV with good special effects and well drawn characters. Those goals have been met. You can never predict what audiences want, but all you can do is deliver your best. And everyone realizes the potential and we’ve done our best to deliver that.

MV: The execution and the collective talent of everyone involved. We have so many talented people working well together.

AP: On Friday we generally screen the episode at lunch for everyone before it airs on Monday. Everybody grabs their plates and sits down and waits for the screening. At every commercial break, people scream. People that work on the show are as big, if not bigger fans than the people who watch it. They’re just so happy to be apart of it and it shows. The cast and crew can’t wait to see the show. We’re all working in different works, acting, crew, special effects. To see it all come together on Friday afternoon is so rewarding and so exciting.

Question for Milo: If this happens to be GILMORE GIRLS last season, would you consider returning as Jess?

Milo Ventimiglia: With GILMORE GIRLS last season, I went back because Dan and Amy [Sherman-Palladino] asked me too. I’ve never met David [new executive producer David Rosenthal)] and I’m pretty busy working on HEREOS, so I don’t see it happening.

Question for Adrian: How do you feel about the same network that your show is on [NBC] not wanting to air commercials for your wife’s documentary film SHUT UP AND SING [Adrian Pasdar is married to Dixie Chicks band member Natalie Maines]?

Adrian Pasdar: That’s a touchy issue, but I can’t say I condone the behaviour by NBC. I think it’s cowardly. Television is free for the people and the network should not take it upon themselves to be a sieve for what’s acceptable. It’s a documentary for heavens sake — It’s not a fictionalized account [the movie]. I think it’s a sad commentary and I’d be a liar if I didn’t say I was extremely disapointed.

Be sure to visit theTVaddict.com tomorrow for more with Adrian Pasdar and Milo Ventimiglia. Rest assured, they talk HEROES… not politics! This TV Addict was incredibly impressed with how well both actors spoke and articulated answers to practically every question under the sun.

Tomorrow afternoon, the TV Addict will be interviewing the Petrelli Brothers — Nathan (Adrian Pasdar) and Peter (Milo Ventimiglia). If you have any questions for TV’s most fascinating new HEROES, please post them below.